It’s an expression used throughout much of the English-speaking world to describe the tendency for people to compare themselves, their wealth, and their social statuses with their neighbors, friends, and colleagues. The roots of the saying may go back to the excesses of the Gilded Age as chronicled by the famed writer, Edith Wharton. Wharton knew what she was talking about. As it turns out, her maiden name was Jones and her father’s extended family set the tone for opulent living in late 19th century New York City – everyone was watching the Joneses.
In turn, the saying gained real traction when The New York World ran a comic strip “Keeping Up with the Joneses” from 1913 to 1940. True to form, the cartoon’s McGinis family could never surpass their unseen neighbors – the Joneses.
The power of comparison visits virtually every aspect of life. From education to fashion to careers to choosing our favorite sports teams – we all look to see what others are doing and it can color our choices. People ascribe value to being better educated, better dressed, better paid, a better athlete.
The same holds true in mergers and acquisitions. During my lengthy career advising business owners on sale transactions, the desire for “better” has been on regular display. Highly successful and insightful entrepreneurs often approached their exits with expectations that were less about the actual merits of their businesses and more about how a desired outcome would position them against a standard they viewed as important – whether it was realistic or not. The consistent longing for “better” manifests itself regularly in four key ways:
On May 6, 1954, Roger Bannister became the first person to run a mile in under four minutes. Although his accomplishment was eclipsed in just 46 days, only about 1,400 runners have matched the feat in the past seven decades. Put another way — millions have lacked the winning recipe of opportunity, work ethic, and talent to join Bannister within that elite company of athletes.
Any runner striving for that standard must make a clear-eyed judgment about the likelihood of reaching their goal with the assets at their disposal. Business owners considering a sale are in the same spot. Unfortunately, many impose standards for their deal without really understanding if they are even attainable. The savviest owners know their strengths and work to improve their limitations. They are comfortable with not getting a record-setting multiple or an unbelievable structure, as long as they’re getting a fair deal that reflects business reality.
They don’t worry about outrunning the Joneses … and in so doing, they may even surpass them.
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